Having trouble with my node set up

hi there i have been trying to get my node back on the air so far i have done all that needs to be done to get the node up an running at this moment my set up is alinco dr 135 rig connected to an uri this node been off the air for about 2 years the uri green light is flashing when i try to connect *81 i get the node number does not exist i also have port 4569 forward to the node pc.any ideas will be thankful Tony node {41412}

I was able to connect to your node 41412 so everything looks OK from this end.

What is *81, normally the connect command is *3?